Invite friends and family to read the obituary and add memories.
We'll notify you when service details or new memories are added.
You're now following this obituary
We'll email you when there are updates.
Please select what you would like included for printing:
Mrs. Barbara Ann (Barlett) Lahman, age 75, of Healdton, passed away in her home on February 17, 2026. A private graveside service will be held at Graham Cemetery, with Rev. Jamie Griffin officiating. Arrangements are entrusted to Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.
Born on August 25, 1950, in Lebanon, Pennsylvania, Barbara was the daughter of the late Mr. Robert Earl Barlett and Mrs. Catherine (Dembitsky) Watson. She spent her formative years in Lebanon, where she attended and graduated from local the school.
Throughout her career, Barbara demonstrated a strong work ethic, serving in various roles including as a prep cook at the Ardmore VA Center and in culinary positions at Holiday Inn and Ardmore Adventist Hospital.
On June 31, 1992, she married James Andrew Lahman in Healdton, Oklahoma. Barbara had a passion for baking, knitting, and crocheting, and she enjoyed exploring history. Her love for classical music and her family's heritage was deeply rooted, influencing her culinary creations and family gatherings.
Barbara is survived by her husband, James; her children, James Lahman, Jr., Jennifer Lahman, and Cody Lahman; her grandson, Kyle Lahman; along with a host of family and friends who will miss her dearly.
Pallbearers for the service will include James Lahman, Sr., James Lahman, Jr., Cody Lahman, Lucas Perkins, and John Lahman.
Memories and condolences can be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.
Visits: 51
This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the
Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply.
Service map data © OpenStreetMap contributors