Healdton – Cremation services for Mr. Roy “Neil” Pender, 62, of Healdton are scheduled with Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Healdton. A private inurnment of his ashes will placed at Mount Olive Cemetery of Healdton.

Neil Pender was born on September 3, 1963, in Ardmore to the late Roy Rex Pender and Bobbye Jean (England) Pender. He passed away at his home in Healdton on Thursday, April 30, 2026.

Raised in Healdton, Neil attended local schools before pursuing further education and training in Kansas City, Missouri. There, he specialized in paintless dent repair and automotive detail cleaning, skills that defined much of his professional life. Alongside this, he worked as a Landman, providing contract services for several oil companies. Neil was known as a loyal friend and will be fondly remembered by all who had the privilege to know him.

He was preceded in death by his parents, his brother James Steven Pender, his sister Mary Alisa Pender, and his life partner, Scott.

Survivors include his brothers, Rick Pender and wife Jayne of Healdton and Kegan Pender and wife Darcie of Ardmore; sister, Jee Anna Polzien of Healdton; nieces and nephews, Jason, Cooter, Corbin, Casin, Cadence, Grayson, Roselyn and Kaiden: numerous friends and other family.

Condolences may be sent online at www.alexandergrayfh.com